It's warm out, which means it's time for spring fever, if you know what I mean.Which brings me to the a topic I think we all have on our minds no matter what our dating status: The checklist of beautifying steps you want to take to make sure your confidence is as high as it can possibly go for a night of romancin'. I'm really only putting this in to make my mom happy. ) You can skip flossing and just brush your teeth or gargle with mouthwash. Basically you just want to make sure you've got fresh breath.

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I’m not going to say whether this is a good thing or a bad thing. When you’ve been on the planet for close to 40 years, you probably have a pretty good idea about what you’re looking for in a man.

I don’t blame you for a second, and I’m not going to tell you which things you should give up in order to find the man of your dreams.

It’s that, no matter what, you’re ALWAYS going to find a deal breaker. She’d most recently had her heart broken by a charming, but commitment-phobic man from Match.com, and she turned to me for guidance through the dating process. And then she’d complain on the phone that he wasn’t what she was looking for.

As you’re probably painfully aware of, a man can like you, get very close to you, and still not want a lasting, meaningful relationship with you.

Admittedly, I haven’t been the greatest girlfriend,or fling either.

After going through my last breakup, I finally paused to ask myself why I’m always falling for real winners.

I have heard this many times before, girls and women talking about their checklists and classifying their possible partners or their dates into these lists, and even worst telling them they have a list! , it should simply be about love and having someone to share life with you with support and friendship and love.

Relationships are not business transactions, I have seen they are treated as such a lot here in the US and why there are a lot less divorces in India than in the US, because in arranged marriages in India they learn to love their partner, accepting who they are.

If it were the case, then we wouldn’t spend so much time wondering if monogamy still exists, looking under our couch cushions for spare change and chivalry, or dubbing ourselves the hook up generation, would we?

Truth: I am completely addicted to dating disasters. Oh, yes, there was the junkie who cheated on me with not one, but four of our coworkers.

The emotionally unavailable bartender who suddenly moved to Mexico with his girlfriend.