And in basketball, o„fficials dumped the no-dunk rule after fans complained that it made play less exciting. Women not only spent less time looking at a man’s face (when compared with men looking at women); they also moved more quickly onto his other body parts. “So take in her breasts or legs, but don’t dwell on them.” And make the most of your assets, too.Well, now it’s time to dump some obsolete dating rules, too..you want to win. “Wear well-fitting shirts, and don’t be shy about using your jeans to show off whatever nature gave you.” OLD: Online dating. ● Online dating made it easy to cast a wide dating net.

Here are a few tips to get you moving in the right direction.

Never empty your glass – You might be shaking like a leaf and nothing would settle your nerves more than to knock back the glass of wine on your table, but trust me, it’s not worth it.

“Sometimes women, like men, drop their standards so they can get what they want sooner,” Kerner says.

“So if a gorgeous woman is on the hunt for a date and you can respond quickly, you might strike it lucky with a woman who’s actually way out of your league.” [pagebreak] OLD: Talking Dirty. ● Talking dirty had one major advantage over sexting—you got to see her response.

But a guy will most likely be a little scared if you knock back a few shots before dinner.

Think carefully about inviting us back after a first date – Yes, we might well ask you but that doesn’t necessarily mean we want you to say yes.

A kiss on your doorstep is enough to reassure us that you are interested but if you invite us in for the night we will start to wonder if this happens to every guy you date.

I don't know about you, but sometimes texting can really drive me crazy.

After four years, scads of lays, and many great girlfriends (plus plenty of failures along the way), he launched this website.

When I started writing Ask a Guy, I had no idea that it would take off like it has.

“Whisper in a woman’s ear that you’d love to see her naked and she’ll probably either sti‹ffen and move away slightly, or giggle and blush,” Kerner says.