Writing a blog helped me learn how to express my emotions.

It took a lot of practice and hard work becoming more social around girls. It’s a process of enriching your personality and takes place with many small steps.

I was jealous of extroverts who felt energized interacting with people, because I always needed a lot of time on my own to recover after social situations.

The trick, is to recognize that I'm not being a jerk when I say that you don't yet know if you like her. If you approach her with the plan to get to know her, you'll be fine.

If you approach her with any plan to let her know you already like her, without getting to know her first, you are most likely going to appear needy.

Here are 6 common needy actions we like to take and how you can do take them in a non-needy way. The best way to confirm a date without being needy is to make a small change in the actual date and use that as the excuse to make contact.

For example, if you planned a date at 8pm at XYZ, text her the day off with a message like this: "Hey there, I’m running a bit behind today, let’s do instead of 8pm." You don’t have to ask if the date is still on to confirm a date, you simply need to ping her with a reminder which will then prompt her to either confirm or flake.

Eventually, she begins to wish that she could find a guy who is more of a challenge…

When a needy guy gets dumped by a woman he really likes (often before they’ve even had sex), he will start looking for reasons why.

Those of you who subscribe to my newsletter will have received an article about neediness and how it is pretty much the biggest turn off to women.

However, sometimes, we simply need to (or want to) take some action that is needy. Confirming a date is, technically, a needy task; however, it is also a necessity given how flaky women generally are. How do you get around appearing needy when confirming a date.

When I write dating tips and relationship advice for a new mode, I am writing to a female audience.