When we order our dinner, we can choose the dressing on the side, gluten free, egg whites only, hold the bread please- option from the menu.

So, when it comes all the options in the gay world of dating, why do we often forget that even have options available at all?

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One of your cub’s favorite things about you is you’ve got “vintage” style. He won’t like if you imply he doesn’t know what he’s doing.

He wants to know what’s interesting and popular in your age group. Don’t try to keep up with a young buck by suddenly wanting to go out all throughout the week and drink hard after work. If there are certain things you need to happen in bed, present them in a way so it’s fun for both of you, and not just all in service of your big O.

And last but not least, We date a guy who will (not) come out to his family and would like to keep your relationship a secret.

All of these options are self destructive and can only lead to heartbreak. Are we incapable of deciphering the right and wrong path to take when it comes to the matters of the heart?

And you should remember that a date is just a date — and it can actually be fun!

Whether your long-term goal is to get married and start a family or to set sail around the world in a sailboat built for two, you start in the same place: on a first date.

Spend time in person observing what a romantic interest does. Successful schoolteachers report that being more rigid in September and easing up as the year continues is the best way to gain respect and trust.

It’s always better to back down from a boundary you’ve built than to build one after someone has crossed the line. Love is a Two Way Street Make sure things are reciprocal.

For example: We date a guy who is super hot- but has no job.

(or) We date a guy who only wants an open relationship- because we fear being alone.

In Los Angeles, we are blessed with the gift of unlimited options.